Sexual Magic

August 27, 2006

Channeled by Serge J. Grandbois and Transcribed by Ellen Gilbert (Kwaa’Ji)
Recorded in Toronto, Canada on August 27, 2006

Summary Roll Call: Serge, Mark, John, Myrna, Ellen, Brian, Jen, Lisa, Anya, Tom, Ella, Emmy and Tyronne

(Session begins at 7:54 PM)

[ELLEN'S NOTE: While all participants were awaiting Kris' arrival, there was a lot of chatter and quite a bit of raucousness, particularly from the Delaware group, I admit. Brian was having a fun time cracking me up with many off-the-wall comments. I finally told him we have to pipe down or Kris will never come through. I believe Mark finally just put us on mute.]

KRIS: Now we trust that you are all comfortable and we thank you for your consideration, PARTICULARLY the consideration to allow us a word in edgewise! And a lovely gesture, indeed, it is.

MARK: (Chuckling) Thank you.

KRIS: During the last such conference, we briefly addressed issues of sexuality and spirituality. We suggested a gentle technique we referred to as “Awakening the Three Dragons,” and during this evening we would enjoy speaking some more on this often controversial subject matter. And we would also enjoy some feedback and perhaps even answer some of your questions, if you have any. So you may consider this an open evening, but specifically on the subject matter. Are you in agreement?

MARK: I am! Opening the phone lines. [Mark un-mutes everyone.] (Speaking like a radio announcer.) Phone lines are now open! Does anyone have any questions on the topic of sexuality and spirituality or the three dragons?

ELLA: I have a question if it’s a good time to ask now?

MARK: Go ahead, Ella.

ELLA: My question is: with this technique, if the person at the moment doesn’t have a suitable partner, let’s say, do you still suggest we use this technique and somehow….in the past you talked about giving pleasure yourself to yourself…is that all part of the same picture? How does one address if one doesn’t necessarily have a partner?

KRIS: Anyone can most definitely utilize this gentle technique whether they are partnered or not, the point being to heighten one’s sensory experiences, to sharpen the sensual exchange with all of creation. (Static interference)

ELLA: Ah, there’s a lot of interference…

KRIS: Did you hear our answer?

ELLA: I heard probably sixty percent of it, but I got what you are saying. You said one could still heighten the sensations, except that, sometimes it feels that if you awaken all of your passions and you are by yourself only, then you sort of also have to, you know, use it…and it becomes…

KRIS: Indeed.

ELLA: I mean, there are ways, and I’m just saying that it goes into a different area and I’m not sure if you want to talk about that. If you don’t, it’s okay.

KRIS: For the time being we will stay within the subject. Suffice it to say that the entire human experience and the relationship that you have with Self, as well as with your environment, can truly be something much more profound and sensual than you have ever experienced before.

But in order to appreciate that, the individual would need to sensitize themselves to their own erotic energies first and foremost, then being able to engage that type of experience even whilst exploring the daily activities you so quaintly take part of. Recognizing that those lovely, erotic, sensual energies are to be found EVERYWHERE you are, regardless of the daily activity, whether it is shopping, driving, taking a walk in the city or the country, it need no longer be the humdrum experience it may have been in the past.

A deeper, fuller appreciation of the energies of nature can easily be tapped into and your own level of personal fulfillment can truly be enhanced by such a simple experience as projecting those cultivated, sensual energies into all parts of your living experience. Even the energetic relationship that you have with material nature can truly be changed simply by engaging this particular mood, or Rasa, a sweet exchange with all of your energy creations.

This may also have secondary but just as profound healing and nurturing qualities in the sense that it can alter or modify the way you relate to daily activities. Perhaps for some individuals, certain daily tasks and functions and chores may provide a certain level of irritability or even anger or a sense of powerlessness, but by looking at those very same activities through this sensual mood, the daily activities take on a subtle hue of lovemaking, but at a deeper psychological and emotional state where you can relate to your own energies in a much sweeter fashion, and this is merely one small example.

ELLEN: I don’t have a question, but I have a comment. I noticed that this process, this awakening to these erotic energies, tends to heighten my own creative processes. I’m more able to get into a creative zone, and a much better creative zone than I ever did before. And it also seems to heighten my dream activity. I’m having more interaction with focus selves, other focuses, in my dreams.

KRIS: It does stand to reason that this would be the case, since at the core, these erotic, sensual desire-based energies are central to the very idea of Being. As we briefly explained, this strikes at the very core of ‘All That Is’. That desire, that creative urge is what enables you to create your physical reality, your material world. And it is a most potent energy indeed!

ELLEN: It seems to create a stronger feeling of connection to everything.

KRIS: Indeed. Thus from our own perspective, the very notion that one must somehow or other overcome material nature, physical reality, get away from it, or even the very idea that one’s ego must somehow or other be purged from Self is an extremely distorted perception. It is as if the lover suddenly believes that in order to be a better lover, one must become a eunuch!

JOHN: Ouch!

KRIS: Do you follow?

(Yes)

Thus, experimenting with this heightened, sensual, erotic-like mood can truly color everything in your physical daily activities and create a substance and an experience, a level of experience that is transformative by its very nature. And cultivating that mood leads directly into acceptance of Self. Are there any other lovely questions or comments?

EMMY: This is Emmy, and I seem to have lost my tongue at times, but it is because this subject is quite…very interesting to me, but also something that I have been struggling with for quite some time. Since I was very young, I almost never touched myself and it’s really something I need to work on I think and I’m looking for a way to do this and to overcome my own fears. And sometimes, I’m not sure how, but I think you’re already offering some tools.

ELLEN: Have you tried the Awakening the Three Dragons, Emmy?

EMMY: Not yet, so I should do that, but even then I notice that I am really not used to touch myself…well, in a way I am, but not in…as soon as it becomes a thing of sexuality, it’s physical for me, somehow…because I’m used to touching myself, but not….do you know what I mean? [when touching in sign language, for instance]

ELLA: I understand. There’s a degree of….I don’t have inhibitions, but when I tried energy balancing exercise, I could feel energy flow through me, [but] when I tried this three dragon exercise, I just don’t feel any response, and maybe it’s also because I am blocking to a degree. I don’t know, maybe it’s also what Emmy is saying, that we’re not yet comfortable to deal with this type of an energy.

EMMY: I really want to be more comfortable with myself, and I noticed that swimming helps for me.

ELLA: You know Emmy, when Kris offered the loving touch exercise, it wasn’t erotic, but it was such a loving…you know, it’s like you are really connecting to yourself, wherever you touch, it doesn’t have to be erogenous zones…and that helps just to really appreciate yourself in that moment, not to rush, not to go anywhere, just to be with myself. Maybe it doesn’t have to be right away the Three Dragon exercise, just as you said, little by little, learn by yourself, in any part of your body.

ELLEN: Yeah, and I think the Three Dragons is a gentle approach because it’s not overtly sexual, it doesn’t have that tension.

ELLA: That’s right, Ellen, I agree with that.

TOM: It’s like being your own doctor.

KRIS: As we stated during the last discussion, the Three Dragons exercise can take longer with some individuals than with others. And we also greatly suggest that one venture into those personal erotic experiences only when there is a desire to do so, not because one feels that they should or should not. Do you follow?

EMMY: Indeed, and with me it’s a thing that I….I don’t know if I block it or if I am too worried about what has to be normal, but I just don’t very often feel…like for instance, making love or whatever, so it’s really something that worried me a lot, and maybe because of that worry, it became worse.

ELLA: Emmy, I can tell you that I feel a lot of times the same way you describe, except lately I have not been thinking that it’s not normal. I just don’t judge myself. I feel whatever I feel except I know objectively that I am suppressing some things because I am married, and I love my husband on so many different levels, but not sexually really, he has some issues and it’s not very exciting this way, so I just…my fear is that, if I let myself feel what I could feel, or would feel, I’ll just have to go and find somebody else, and I don’t wish to do that because I’m not the type of person who could be with one person and then come to another.

I’m not willing to just sever myself from my husband, because he needs me a lot. And maybe it’s the wrong reasons, but I know I’m there for him and he’s there for me, so I feel there’s a lot of fears on this level, because I do know that inside I feel. It’s interesting that Kris is continuing with this topic, because I’ve been suppressing for such a long time, that I even forgot that I can feel this way, and yesterday suddenly it slammed me, almost like my entire body…that passion re-awakened on such a more….almost unrelated experience, and I felt, “My god, I have all of that in me, I have it, I just suppress it.”

And it was such a revelation, because I felt already that I don’t have it, but I don’t know what to do with it, and that’s why I asked my question in the beginning. Now if I would venture that way, and I re-awaken those desires in me, somehow or sometimes, I still associate them immediately with intimacy, but what I think is that it is not related to intimacy, it is related to me accepting myself in every way I want.

ELLEN: Yeah, this is sort of what I was talking about earlier, when I was saying that the awakening of the sexual feelings like that often leads to…I’ve noticed that it leads to heightened creativity, and heightened psychic activity, and heightened dream activity. I don’t want to make it sound like it’s sublimating the sexual drive, because that’s not really what it’s like. It’s just sort of expanding it. You begin to see that the sexual drive, the sexual energy, is just so much greater than just exploring through sexual intercourse. Everything becomes so much more pleasurable.

KRIS: That is our point exactly, that though the sexual act itself is most deeply entrenched within your lives at so many levels, the erotic and sensual art of living is not necessarily tied directly to sex and sexual intercourse, that the whole of creation, your creations, become a rich expression of a deeper energy that still courses through your veins at any given time.

And when you engage in any form of sex you enjoy, including intercourse, then that also becomes a rich expression of that erotic sensual art of living. And you may notice as you cultivate this art, that energy seems to surround you, as if you are being supported by this energy as it wraps itself in and through you almost on a continuous basis. And it has nothing to do with being “turned on,” so to speak, but that you may more easily notice the flow of your being through time and space.

How you manifest your creations and utilize this erotic, sensual art in this way, facilitates your ability with conscious creation that much more because your senses are sharpened, your mind is (word indecipherable) more, also clear, your thoughts have an extra quality that borders on excitement, an acceleration of consciousness, letting you recognize that indeed you and your energies are truly a great orchestration of consciousness, even more so than anything you may be able to intellectualize about.

Because this entire approach, that your life is an erotic, sensual expression, gives it a quality that makes everything feel truly alive, even those situations, events, circumstances or conditions that normally you might not even cast a glance towards. Everything becomes charged, becomes almost super-real, [and] borders literally on a visceral interpretation of Framework 2. Do you follow that?

ELLEN: I think one of the first times I noticed that the most was when I was breastfeeding my children (Laughs) and it’s funny, because when I was first starting out, I remember reading somewhere, someone saying that it was kind of a sexual experience. And that was appalling to me at the time, but then I….as it progressed, I understood what they were talking about, there’s this wonderful synergy between the mother and the baby because you’re creating this sustenance for the baby and the baby is thriving on this and together you develop this marvelous…I don’t know…this energetic relationship that’s so nurturing and sustaining and creative and it’s….it’s hard to describe…it’s erotic without being….

BRIAN: Sexual.

ELLEN: Without being sexual, yeah, and …

KRIS: Because there is no shame. It does not engage shame.

ELLEN: No, there was no shame to it, but it’s a very difficult thing to describe to people. You create something out of your own inner being that’s created, that’s translated through your own body that’s sustaining this being and there’s this love energy that just is….translated into the milk itself….(Laughs)…I don’t know…how to explain it….but it is, it’s an erotic energy and it’s very powerful….it’s very beautiful.

ELLA: Ellen, I wanted to ask you…or any of you….I’m trying to figure out for myself because I’m used to by now, before I go to sleep, most of the time I do energy balancing exercise, and I try do that exercise and then to do Three Dragon exercise and I’m trying to figure out….are you somehow keeping them apart, or are you doing one after another or….I wasn’t sure if I’m doing it right, I think that’s what confuses me.

ELLEN: I think like Kris says, you don’t want to do the…you don’t want to force yourself to do the Awakening the Three Dragons if you’re not feeling in the mood, so to speak.

ELLA: But he also said that it doesn’t have to be erotic or for sexual, it just…

ELLEN: Well, not too long ago I did both the Balancing Touch exercise just before sleep and then the Awakening Three Dragons and I thought [at first] like I wanted to be aroused, but then I decided no, I just wanted to go to sleep, but when I went to sleep I had very erotic dreams…and they were very profound dreams, so it’s not…you know…

ELLA: So you can do them one after another? One doesn’t override another, so to speak?

ELLEN: Yeah, well Kris mentioned in the last session that it would probably be best to do the Balancing Touch THEN the Awakening the Three Dragons because the Balancing Touch has a way of unblocking energy blocks.

ELLA: Okay, so I could do it this way, because I would prefer to dedicate a little time in the evening, instead of trying to remember at lunch I do one, and at another, you know, it’s just a little too much. Also I do the Balancing Touch any time I feel like it.

ELLEN: I never schedule myself.

ELLA: Yeah, I don’t schedule either, because I’m very spontaneous.

KRIS: We would also suggest that if the Three Dragons exercise seems too subtle to perceive at the onset try to do it once you are already eroticized and then simply train yourself to also recognize when you use it without being eroticized.

ELLA: Thank you. That is good advice.

KRIS: Now what is the time?

MARK: 8:27.

KRIS: We suggest a small break. We do not think you have all spoken enough yet!

MARK: (Laughing) 8:27 break.

(Break begins at 8:27 PM.)

EMMY: I just suddenly realized something….that whenever I hold myself back out of feelings of shame, that stem back from a long time ago….and when I’m talking in sign language with deaf people then I feel somewhat more in touch with myself, and with these new developments going on I also feel more in touch with myself and I understand what he was saying, when everything around you…you feel more loved, or like a warm blanket around you or something…I’m not sure if I’m being clear here, because I’m very tired…

ELLEN: That’s the erotic energy he’s been talking about, Emmy. THAT feeling…when you feel that way, doing what you love to do, or doing what you….feel is just innately….what you’re innately driven to do…that’s the energy he’s talking about.

EMMY: And it really feels wonderful, and because lately I have more time to just calm down, I got way more in touch with myself and the only thing where I have troubles is when I try to make love and I don’t feel like it. I’m way too busy with what would be normal, and I don’t want to disappoint Gert-Jan for instance. And that’s the whole issue, I think, and with daily life, I feel a lot of loving energy around me already for weeks, but it tends to fly away….but now I understand what he was talking about.

MARK: Another example of how to use this Three Dragons is say…prior to playing the cello…

ELLEN: Oh, good one, Mark!

MARK: And pour that passionate energy into your music, or your art, or writing a story, or even work, your day to day life.

ELLA: Or maybe when Emmy is already playing the cello and feels so good about it, maybe at that point she can pause and do the exercise and see if it actually intensifies how she feels about playing cello.

MARK: (Humorously) As long as she’s not solo on stage!

EMMY: (Laughing) Yes indeed!

ELLEN: What about you, Brian? Do you feel that kind of energy when you’re playing?

BRIAN: If I did the Three Dragons while I was playing onstage, I’d be in the stratosphere! I’m already highly energized to play anyway, when it comes to performing.

(Kris returns at 8:32 PM)

KRIS: We should also provide you with a lovely and gentle little warning, in that the more heightened and sharpened and enhanced your energies are, the more you shed the shackles of shame and guilt, and the more your sense of fulfillment and self acceptance, the more meaningful your own sexual acts will become and very likely the less you may actually feel the need for that specific interpretation of energy as you become more fulfilled, because the fulfillment can sustain you for longer periods of time than when you usually suppress and sublimate shame and guilt with furtive sex.

Now we do wish to be carefully heard. We are not saying in any way, shape or form, that sex and anything related to it is wrong. We are saying that this discussion is about a completely different order of sexual fulfillment and enhancement, energetically, psychologically, spirituality, and that your entire lives are an erotic and sensual expression of a deeper art of living. And the fulfillment that is derived from this kind of experience is very profound indeed.

As you travel in your daily lives with your own reality, notice your energies. Make conscientious, deliberate attempts to maintain your focus in that sensual, erotic zone and engage the physical world with that energy. Notice how even the most mundane tasks can take the allure of something interesting to discover. Discover mostly a here-to-fore unknown relationship with your lovely being, physical and all.

(To Mark) If you so desire, you may re-open the lines. Any comments or questions or observations?

BRIAN: Yeah Kris, I have an observation. I know exactly where you’re coming with this. Being onstage playing music or even writing a classical piece, or even when I’m out watching freight trains, or even simply just being by a creek enjoying nature, I feel that feeling of like ultimate power. You could call it, yes, sexual power, but it’s almost a euphoria beyond description, but it has a sexual feeling in nature, but still just a resonance that’s beyond description. Would that sort of be what you’re talking about?

KRIS: Indeed.

BRIAN: Thank you.

KRIS: Notice how the energies of your perceptions caress every leaf, every stone, every brick in the building that you walk by. How your energies are caressing the pavement, other individuals, everything within your path. If you are in nature, notice how your energies translated as nature, are also engaged in a beautiful, sensual dance. If you are walking by a creek, a stream or river, notice how the water can indeed sensually caress the shoreline, every pebble and stone in its bed, giving of itself to the roots of the trees and the plants nearby, and so on and so forth.

And allow yourself to be entranced by the processes of your own sensual energies as they participate in that great dance. Look at the clouds and allow yourself to marvel at the flow of their forms through the firmament. How the wind makes love to the branches and the leaves and everything in its path. As you slowly awaken those very energies within yourself, it is much easier, this way, to accept Self.

And if you encounter walls of shame and guilt, then we suggest not to try and bury them or destroy them, but instead, utilize the same process to accept whatever part of Self has been convinced in its shame and guilt, somehow, somewhere, and make love to it, also. Do you follow?

(Yes)

EMMY: Thank you, Kris. It’s very clear, and very helpful, also.

KRIS: You are all such lovely, powerful creatures and it behooves each and every one of you to accept the Being that you are. Whether you consider a part of your being to be less worthy of sunlight or sunshine than others, embrace the whole self. If you must embrace yourselves physically, then do that as well. Let the doors of acceptance be opened and be ready to receive the gifts that come with the deeper accepting of Self.

Such a practice can truly have an effect upon the whole of your lives, but no one can force you to do this and never should you feel that you need to do this now, but when you begin the process and you can see yourself accepting those aspects of your Being that are in need of recognition and acceptance by you, that life you know is magically transformed because it no longer recognizes barriers and boundaries erected by shame and guilt, but instead the freedom to soar and enjoy all of life’s treasures. And the greatest of all treasures is to accept all of Self. Any other questions or comments?

MARK: I actually have a comment. I’d like to bear witness as an example. You’ve many times challenged people, including myself, to fall in love, but not with an individual or a thing, but just to be in the state of being in love.

KRIS: Indeed, to be in love with love.

MARK: Yes and I have achieved that. It was brief and I should probably utilize that more often, but it was such a joyous expression of myself that… all the senses, all the colors, all the smells of life in my day were just overwhelmingly beautiful, that nothing could pry that smile off my face, not even a crowbar, but that state of being, when you are in love, is….very much like what you are talking about now….is when you accept and you experience the Joy of Being.

KRIS: Indeed, as we suggested earlier, it automatically puts you in touch with so much more of your Being, that life takes on an extraordinary, even a heroic stance.

MARK: It’s very joyous place to be.

KRIS: Spirituality is not about wearing white gloves, watching everything you think, or say, or do, lest one thought, one word, one action is perceived as negative and so on and so forth. Spirituality is about living your damn life!

(Group laughter)

And if you must fuck your brains to enjoy it, do that! But enjoy your life! It is when you begin to doubt and lay on the guilt and shame and the discounting that you lose touch with whom and what you are. And our humble suggestion, by enhancing your own lovely erotic and sensual energies is truly a beautiful way to accept self, all of Self.

People, from as far back in time as there is a time to remember, have used various forms of what is often called sexual magic to reclaim their lives, and much of this has disappeared over the general past of your civilizations. Much of it also has become distorted, your religions often frown upon anything that we have discussed here this evening, and yet your own experiences can confirm what you have been told or suggested to deny from a very young age. So what we are saying is something that you can indeed practically verify, and have fun doing the verifying as well!

(Laughter)

Now we believe there are other questions?

TOM: Yes, I have a question, Kris. I was wondering if you could maybe explain a little more [about] the exercise of the Three Dragons, as something we do from Framework 1, and what effect does that have on Framework 2?

KRIS: It does not affect Framework 2, but it can heighten your perceptions, enabling you to reflect and get in touch with that larger part of your Being which also resides within Framework 2. Does that make sense to you?

TOM: Yes, it does.

ELLA: I just wanted to get confirmation. Two days ago I had a dream which I didn’t think was related, but now I think maybe it was and in that dream I went outside of my door into the park here and there was a voice that sounded almost like Kris’ voice….but at least there was nobody….and the voice was so powerful that I found myself sort of suspended in that field of energy like sort of levitating, and it was such a joyful feeling.

And the voice was telling me that I developed a lot in the area of key-hosting, well, I’m not sure why key-hosting, but it felt like I am able to perceive energies better, but that feeling of being suspended in that field of energy was incredibly powerful and I thought somehow right now when I hear Kris speak, I think it was also me showing myself…the awakening of all of these energies. Was that also like foreshadowing a little bit for me?

KRIS: Indeed, and we did play a small role only in your lovely dream in terms of being a catalyst for your own energy.

ELLA: It felt like the voice was trying to convey to me that I am able to perceive that there are other energies, but there was more, there was infinitely more than I was able to objectively understand, I just feel it in me, that I am somehow, because I have been doing a lot of what you suggested, finding different aspects of myself and embracing them, and talking to them, talking to my inner critic and maybe, as you described, when you plant the seeds, eventually the crop grows, and I felt that was somehow a beginning of that, I don’t know.

KRIS: Indeed and keep paying attention to those very nice dreams.

MARK: Yeah, Ella, if you can recapture how you felt in that dream, being in your own Being like that, that’s what this discussion has been about all night.

ELLA: I think yes, that’s why I asked because I thought of that in a completely different area before, but with this discussion it triggered a connection. I’m relating more to it, not being afraid as much of my own powers, whether they be erotic or spiritual, or there’s no separation, you know, accepting it and embracing it and going with it.

KRIS: What is the time?

MARK: 8:55.

KRIS: Are there any other questions or comments?

ELLEN: I just had a comment about your closing remarks at the last session when you spoke of why you say “we thank you for your consideration.” And you said that it was a word that was the same as an ancient word for religion. We had a nice little discussion online about that and Tom – Ramruva – from New Jersey came up with the definition for religion as meaning “to reunite,” and I had done some research on “religion” and “consideration” and came to believe that you were talking about consideration as meaning that everything is the same, such as Essence and focus personality are one and the same.

So, from that I extrapolated that when you say, “We thank you for your consideration,” you’re thanking all of us for getting together and being as one….which is very nice, I thought! (Laughs) And I thought that sort of tied into your whole presentation about the energy of Eros, meaning that coming together as one IS that Eros energy….is that a pretty good summation?

KRIS: Indeed it is! And next conference we would like to address the subject matter of ANCIENT religions, not like anything you know today, and the act of union with the Divine.

ELLEN: Sounds great.

KRIS: And with that we beg to thank you again for your consideration and we return Joseph to you.

ELLEN: And we thank you for your consideration, Kris!

ELLA: We are one big Eros!

(8:58 PM)

Detailed Roll Call:

Toronto: Serge (Joseph), Mark (Philip), John (Sohars) and Myrna (Shara-Leene)
Delaware: Ellen (Kwaa’Ji), Brian (El-Don) and Jen (Alma)
Oregon: Lisa (Lauromar)
Salt Lake City: Anya (Greensleeves)
Hawaii: Tom (Desire)
New Jersey: Ella (Lazuli)
Barcelona, Spain: Emmy (Atin Khum)
Washington State: Tyronne

Richard (U.S.A.)

August 22, 2006

Channeled by Serge J. Grandbois and Transcribed by Ellen Gilbert (Kwaa’Ji)
Recorded in Toronto, Canada on August 22, 2006

[MARK’S NOTES: Richard was talking about using hypnotherapy to assist people who were possessed by ‘evil spirits’, demons or other ‘aspects of Self’ and wanted to get Kris’ perspective on this. We were also talking about the year 2012, the end of the Mayan calendar.

It should also be noted that due to the personal nature of this session, many sections have been omitted.]

(7:36 PM. session begins.)

KRIS: Now, we are most glad to see you once again and we trust you are comfortable.

RICHARD: I’m very comfortable and glad to be here.

KRIS: And this is a most interesting discussion you are entertaining because it strikes at the heart of a vast number of people’s beliefs. The great portion of the masses DO entertain similar ideas as what you have just discussed. And we also understand the depth of the roots of these beliefs. This is not something that will change in a matter of hours or years or even decades. Way beyond 2012!

MARK: (Chuckling)

RICHARD: All right. Kris are we talking the 2012 issue or are we talking about the “attachment” issue?

MARK: Attachment.

KRIS: Indeed, but a little dig into 2012 also is comical.

RICHARD: Yes it is.

KRIS: Now, the notion of spirit possessions and attachments makes it all that much easier to identify the cause of a particular individual’s challenges and justifies that individual’s and his or her therapist’s and the union this therapist may be onto and their entire flow of beliefs. And it is significant. It would be easy to simply laugh this off and say they are silly beliefs, but they are ascribed to by a great portion of the masses, therefore they have a much greater effect than if one or two people entertain those notions. The notions of beliefs, those convictions, they are the same.

By what the individual concentrates upon you obtain specific results. And it is not necessarily what the individual or therapist or the unions consciously pay attention to, beliefs are entertained at many layers as you are well aware. And even though they might not be consciously concentrated upon in this moment, they unleash their impact all the same. When an entire culture, for several thousands of years at that, has cultivated the notion that the individual is powerless, is a victim of conditions, events and circumstances, including the whimsical and even neurotic mood swings of a deity, then that lays the foundation that is embedded deep in the collective psyche.

The most subscribed to religious beliefs in your world at this time is Christianity. Now if you take Christianity, Judaism, and the Muslim faith, these are the three core centers of Judeo-Christian belief structures. Together that amounts to…we estimate roughly…more than half the world’s population, the rest divided into other groups including Hinduism, Buddhism and so on and many of these people ALSO ascribe to similar convictions. So this is a massive cloth out of which psychic lives are cut and stitched together.

RICHARD: And reality.

KRIS: This creates a powerful reality.

RICHARD: Yes.

KRIS: And when you add spice to this international dish, you have additional ideas that the Self is not to be trusted any further than you can spit, then you actually create a psychological environment where often the kind of static fear unleashes its charge in many, many areas. Do you follow so far?

RICHARD: Yeah, I do. You’re creating a situation where there is a reality that doesn’t need to be, but it is a reality that’s created.

KRIS: Indeed. All of this together makes it very difficult for many of these people to respond positively to the greater aspects of the Self when they reveal themselves to the individual, or when the individual suddenly stumbles upon the truth about Self, that Self is multi-dimensional, that there are other aspects often in terms of quaintly displayed past lives, or probable realities, or even other portions of the Self that are so alien in some way, that are unrecognizable in human identifiers and might even be painted over in the scariest of, quote unquote “alien” terminologies.

RICHARD: Yeah, I’d like to talk about that, but go ahead.

KRIS: This is a difficult place to be when you do not trust your own Self, thinking that at any moment, something dark and nefarious may be unleashed onto you from within your own Self! And when experiences are often allowed without any background references, then that may very well frighten the bejeezus out of anyone, understandably so.

RICHARD: Yeah.

KRIS: Especially since the world is far bigger than anything your race can even imagine, but right now your imagination allows you to experience something different than your ancestors of a thousand years ago, where up to perhaps even 500 years ago, the notion that the world was flat, was not taken lightly. Indeed, many of the sailors that left Europe for America were frightened, lest they come too close to the edge of the world and fall off. And the fear itself was very real.

RICHARD: Sure. Actually, similar fears exist now.

KRIS: Indeed.

RICHARD: Look at the religious right. They’re falling off all the time. Kris…okay, great. You’ve drawn a picture and I think I understand it, I grab it, so now we’ve got other-dimensional aspects of the Self that are involved here and can paint a picture because for many reasons, I would assume, because they’re not fully accepted, they’re not fully integrated, they’re responded to negatively, where you feel like you’ve got something foreign that’s a part of you.

KRIS: Indeed.

RICHARD: So in an enlightened view, you would understand that it’s an aspect of yourself that can be integrated.

KRIS: That is correct.

RICHARD: The question then is, how do you do that? For someone who is in this frightened condition that says, “I’ve got a dark entity that’s affecting me, and this dark entity is nefarious and negative,” how do you deal with that then in a therapy situation?

KRIS: Indeed. Now, in a therapeutic situation it might be impossible to alter the mind of the patient.

RICHARD: Yes.

KRIS: Then you have to utilize the tools that they give you to work with. If they give you the kind of tools and materials to build an outhouse, you cannot build a palace!

RICHARD: Got it.

KRIS: But if they give you the tools to build a palace, do not build an outhouse.

RICHARD: Okay, got it. I like it, okay. So did I build an outhouse with my client? Think about that a little bit.

KRIS: We considered it.

(Laughter)

RICHARD: Well I want you to be honest with me!

KRIS: Now, she has her sets of beliefs and even she may not know the extent of what those beliefs are, but her behavior demonstrated to you some of the boundaries of those beliefs. Firstly, she has set up a situation that she could not be congruent with for a variety of reasons, and whether or not this past life involvement with her now ex-individual may have had some negative repercussions, this was utilized to assist in focusing some of her own hesitations. Ultimately it is not the influences of the past life that exerted the situation as much as she was intuitively aware of what her future would have been and her sense of intuition is sharpened enough that she reacted violently, but she did not have the formulation to put it together.

RICHARD: Yes.

KRIS: And that is significant. Cultivating her intuitions will greatly assist in grounding her. She must also understand, from her own perspective, that she created the situation.

RICHARD: I think she understands that.

KRIS: Whether she also then brought in the imagery of dark entities, the dark entities were her and other people’s interpretations of that which she could not yet form…it was dark in her mind.

RICHARD: Sure.

KRIS: And, as is wont, with the power and the energy of the psyche, most things will probably be transformed into three-dimensional reality in one way or another.

RICHARD: Got it.

KRIS: Not everything. Her own inner darkness was translated in that manner, as an attempt to cope with a situation she recognized as beyond her at this time. She also was very smart in allowing her physical form to create a literal fire alarm to warn her that she really needed to step out of the situation. So this is also a highly creative endeavor on her part.

She could have chosen instead to die. Within a year’s time – now approximately – you may begin to see great changes in her in a most positive manner, a deeper layer of her own self-awareness will begin to rise to the surface, transformations in her behavior patterns, in her thought patterns, in the way she will understand the world in a different light. It will be less dark. Even that which is unknown within herself will be more familiar. Does that make sense?

RICHARD: It makes great sense.

KRIS: She is in need of recuperative time.

RICHARD: Yes. Well, she’s on that road. I mean she’s just….it’s very interesting and I know you have a handle on that….as she’s come out of this, she’s kind of discovered a new aspect of herself that’s fairly strong and aggressive. A little bit too much so, she drinks a little more, goes out with a lot of guys….which is a strength from what it was before, because that’s the reason she locked into that personality, she couldn’t say no, she had somewhat low self-esteem. That’s changed radically already. There are times when I’m concerned that she’s just busting out a little too quickly, that she’s going to get ahead of herself, but we’ll see.

KRIS: There is an innate trust within her. The episode of medical panic showed her, even if unconsciously, that there is a certain level of being able to trust in herself to manage her situation. Otherwise she would have pulled out of physical reality. She also understands that there is more to her than she has ever discovered.

RICHARD: That’s absolutely true.

KRIS: And the excesses will balance themselves out.

[Skip ahead over personal parts of this session.]

RICHARD: I think you’re doing very well tonight. Remote viewing….do you know what that is?

KRIS: We are certain it has nothing to do with little opera glasses watching the stage ***42:38 [unintelligible word].

RICHARD: (Chuckling) Good, you do know what I’m talking about. Now, the remote viewers are an interesting lot. One of the things, including past life regression and all this other stuff that really does show that time is simultaneous….uh, and I’ve read a very interesting book by Courtney Brown and one of my great interests as you know already, is other species, other aspects of ourselves in other times and dimensions. And Courtney Brown’s book and his remote viewing was to get at this alien thing, right?

And one of the things he came up with was — and you described this one time, I asked you about this — Mars, and whether there were life forms there and you had said that the struggle, or some of the negative impacts that man at that time created on Earth and carried to Mars and were more successful in their perpetration….now what this remote viewing of Courtney Brown’s came up with was that those people still exist underground on Mars.

And my gut feeling is the reason my government [U.S.] is so interested in going there and has spent so much money already is that there’s aspects of the government that knows this, or guesses that that’s the case, and Courtney Brown says that their purpose is actually to get back on Earth because Mars is still dying and they have a *****? 44:23 right now and that will happen in the relative near future.

MARK: 2012? (Laughs)

RICHARD: (Laughing) Maybe! Maybe, actually there are some of them already here, they’ve got the capability to live underground. And some have already moved there, so what’s….? Give me the skinny on that.

KRIS: You might consider this to be contradictory then.

RICHARD: Okay.

KRIS: From our own experiences over 400 million years ago, there was interplanetary warfare. In such times, weapons did not have to be constructed as they are today. Weapons of mind and mantras were utilized. If you take into consideration the ancient Vedic books that describe in minute detail, such things as mushroom clouds, which on your world did not exist until the mid 40′s.

How could a civilization describe such an event and its aftermath nearly 5,000 years ago? Because that was memory of events that the human race had previously witnessed that still held the effects. There are still several cities on your world that show the effects of such weapons being released upon them. Several ancient — Pakistan, Afghanistan, and Indian cities — actually have residual melted glass which can only be the result of a nuclear explosion.

RICHARD: Got it.

KRIS: And this is within the last 10,000 years on your planet. A much more devastating kind of interplanetary warfare was engaged, as we suggested, over 400 million years ago, that involved the Earth, Mars, Venus and a planet that is now invisible called Rakuh. (To Mark) Do you remember that?

MARK: The pronunciation is different, but yeah, I do remember it.

RICHARD: How would you spell Rakuh?

KRIS: We used a slightly different word, but it is the same. Another name for it. R-A-K-U-H, we believe.

RICHARD: Uh-huh, okay, that’s good.

KRIS: Many such individuals also went, utilizing intergalactic vehicles called Vimanas. Vimanas were utilized locally, internationally, globally, others were created for interplanetary, and others for intergalactic and inter-dimensional travel. (To Mark) You may suggest where these descriptions are available.

MARK: I intend to.

KRIS: Many also went to the Dog Star, Sirius and have returned. Some were considered the fish gods in ancient time: the Anunnaki.

RICHARD: The Anunnaki, yeah.

KRIS: And so on and so forth, and unfortunately there have been so many distortions about these visitations that the original intent of these travelers are almost unrecognizable, but they left undeniable impressions upon the cultures they have visited, returning to this planet to see how human beings fared.

The devastation perpetrated by interplanetary warfare destroyed the Martian atmosphere to a great degree, much of the water, a literal, almost a complete and total environmental destruction of the entire planet. For all intents and purposes there were no survivors. However, the planet Mars — and there is another satellite to the Earth that is also not visible — these have their own inhabitants. They are not physical. They are non-physical beings on the planet Mars.

RICHARD: Okay.

KRIS: There are also imprints of the individuals who had established a civilization there which were the unlucky recipients of nuclear weaponry millions of years ago. They are — and we do not consider them to be attachments or dark entities.

RICHARD: Got it.

KRIS: But they still continue their existence without physical form. We believe that your government is more interested in the resources that may exist underground, such as the possibility of natural gas, crude, etc. There is also the potential to establish colonies. That is of the least consideration, but the one that is given more prominence, for the agenda must not be made entirely public. There is such a thing as misinformation. It is very much alive.

RICHARD: Oh, yeah.

KRIS: Now, we are not saying that remote viewing reports are false, but there are distortions. Remember again, even with the most adept remote viewer, if he or she does not understand the principle of belief structures, then you will get a vision that may have before it a very thin film, like a finely and lightly etched glass that allows you to see the outline of the face on the other side, but you may not be able to quite make out if it is male or female [unintelligible]. Does that make sense?

RICHARD: Oh yeah.

KRIS: Refinement and understanding basic functions and the energy that is behind creation will GREATLY assist any remote viewer. We are aware of many remote viewers who may have a rather staunch Judeo-Christian background and they may also report on angelic-type beings, filtered through their own religious convictions.

RICHARD: Of course.

KRIS: So it takes on the forms of that which they are MOST familiar with and that is often taken at face value. And this is also fine for that kind of presentation, because you are dealing with a specific pocket of convictions.

RICHARD: (Abruptly) All right, let’s talk about beliefs…

MARK: (Breaking in) Can I just make a comment? Sorry…I think it’s very interesting that these beings supposedly on Mars that they’re seeing is underground, because we’ve also talked about the rovers and the search for what might have been life on Mars. Scientists are looking for the microscopic when they should be looking for bigger — like the Sphinx on Mars — but we’ve talked about the tunnels underground, correct? … Which will eventually be discovered.

RICHARD: Yeah, I remember that.

MARK: I just wanted to bring that up.

RICHARD: But on the non-physical side, they’re inhabited. It’s interesting.

MARK: So there are interpretations. I just wanted to bring that up.

[The remainder of the session is a personal discussion between Richard and Kris.].

(Session ends at 8:53 PM)

Create Your Own Tools

August 20, 2006

Channeled by Serge J. Grandbois and Transcribed by Ellen Gilbert (Kwaa’Ji)
Recorded in Toronto, Canada on August 20, 2006

Roll Call: Serge (Joseph), Mark (Philip), John (Sohars), Myrna (Shara-Leene), and Rich.

[MARK’S NOTES: John and Myrna were talking about different channelers and what they offer their audiences. Both John and Myrna follow many of the other speakers and incorporate understandings from all of them into their own awarenesses. John commented that Kris and Brahm seem to be avant-garde in that no one else is presenting this type of material.]

(Conversation prior to session.)

MYRNA: I want to focus on stuff that is a “want.”

JOHN: (Quizzically) Right…?

MYRNA: Has he given us techniques for that?

JOHN: Kris? Oh sure, lots of them. Let’s see…. “You get what you concentrate on,” the Happy Map….there are numerous others as well. What I’ve been noticing is that Kris has, in the last two or three sessions that I read, he has got a little one or two paragraph that tells you the whole story. He says, pay attention and notice the inner dialog, “Triple ‘A’” it, when you get stuck on the Triple ‘A’, use the “Just Ask Why,” until you have a better understanding of what it is…accept self…and that’s the recipe.

SERGE: (Humorously) And probably go finger yourself! [Serge is referring to the "Balancing Touch" exercise, in which one touches different areas of the body with the index finger in sequence along a meridian path to help unblock energy centers, jokingly called the "Finger Yourself" method when Kris first introduced it.]

(Group laughter)

MARK: (Cracking up) While plugging into the nodi!

(Session begins at 7:47 PM)

BRAHM: And a most pleasant evening to the three of you! Interesting conversation that you [have] engaged. Consider the craftsman, perhaps a carpenter, going to his construction site and bringing nothing but a hammer. How much do you think he can accomplish?

JOHN: Well, he could hammer stuff, but that’s it.

BRAHM: Exactly. He may decide to choose another tool, but will only be able to accomplish what that tool allows him. However, if he or she is a good and clever carpenter, they will strap on the tool belt. Any tools for the job are instantly available, and in one way or another, whether it be Kris or ourselves, there is a INTENT to provide you with a well-stocked tool belt followed by a well-stacked tool box, and in that way you have sufficient tools to get the job done. You cannot say, “I had no tools.”

And the most important tools are those that are innate to your nature, such as the “Triple ‘A’”, “Ask Why,” because, as you know, little boys and little girls will always ask why, whether they are 40, 60 or 10. So it is natural for human beings to ask why of things. The other tools, especially those delivered of late, are perhaps a bit more sophisticated, but then, little boy or little girl is eventually expected to mature, therefore accessing deeper layers of the reasoning and intuitive mind.

That can provide you with additional insights that we may not include in the package deal, but that are nonetheless implied, because it is your consciousness and you can literally invent the tools necessary to get the job done, as would a well-apprenticed carpenter, even though he or she may have completely forgotten the tool belt and the tool box, will be ingenious enough to use other items that may substitute, out of their own ingenuity.

And having a good insight into how your own consciousness works gives you that advantage to never be bereft of any tools, because first of all, they are all contained within consciousness, as is the challenge that you create, to then allow yourselves the beautiful ideal of creating the tool to work on the challenge. So when you understand that you create the challenge first and foremost, then the job is already half-done.

JOHN: In fact, at some level, the tool to address it could seem to be embedded, as a little secret, within the challenge.

BRAHM: Indeed.

JOHN: Well, you raise an interesting question with me which is that I am beginning to get the feeling that, if I use my imagination as a way to address a situation: that this is me making a new tool and I think that very likely it could work!

BRAHM: Indeed.

JOHN: I forget whether it was you, I believe it was Kris, was saying if you’ve got an issue….I believe he was talking about the dream situation, where, if you see a wall that’s kind of rubbery or something, and you fire a probe into the wall, and you say “What’s that about,” right? Well I have been using that technique on issues that I don’t quite understand about, like for instance, I was thinking about maybe doing EFT as a service for people?….I’m of two…well, a set of minds on the matter…so I fired a probe, just like on Star Trek, into the whole idea complex of that, and I’m still waiting for the tele-metrics to come back.

BRAHM: Indeed, you remembered to provide the probe with the technology to return signals?

JOHN: Yes, absolutely.

BRAHM: Then, you might be expecting the signal to reach you in a specific manner, whilst the signal may be much broader than you anticipated, so your little net simply cannot catch it. You need a bigger net. So allow the communications to reach you in any way, shape, or form they can come to you: dreams, intuitions, daydreaming, the manifestation of physical events and conditions, conversations you may have with individuals.

And this has nothing to do with the individual knowing what you are talking about, but they may say certain things that trigger a cascading effect within your own consciousness, thereby YOU then knowing that even though THEY do not understand the deal, you do. And there may be even other ways you do not yet know how to dream up consciously but your own subjective awareness, your own Source, does know how to bring these things to you because you make allowance for it.

JOHN: Yes, great! That’s fun.

BRAHM: There is, as was once said, an ART to thought.

JOHN: Hmm! That’s nice.

BRAHM: Be artful. And if you look at the excitement that you are generating over the last few weeks in your existence, you may not be able to avoid physical reality responses to your excitement in the form of opportunities that you are creating behind the scenes.

MYRNA: Amen!

JOHN: I hope I can’t avoid them.

BRAHM: Again, make your net big enough to catch them all. (Pause) Please feel free to engage in any discussion you so desire….even if you so wish to speak about the carpenter.

JOHN: Well guys?

MYRNA: Well, I guess my reluctance, Brahm, is that something has just occurred…I’m thinking that these notes are for the entire Kris world and something has happened to me and I don’t know that it’s appropriate. It is….I don’t know… (Laughs)

JOHN: (Humorously) Do we need to EFT and so forth again on you?

MYRNA: I don’t know.

BRAHM: There is always the possibility of pulling teeth!

(Laughter)

JOHN: I think it’s worth discussing, Myrna, whether….you know…This is big for you.

MYRNA: Yeah, it’s big…it’s very big. I’ve taken a blow.

BRAHM: You are pregnant?

(Everyone cracks up)

BRAHM: With anticipation?

MYRNA: (Chuckling) I’m hoping pregnant with new possibilities! And….I have not made a living now for about four years. I have attempted in many, many ways to form alliances. I feel I’m at the stage and age in my life where I can no longer do the cold-culling necessary for selling what I do. So I’ve attempted to create alliances with younger people who I thought could do that…and what this work is…is working in your leadership team in organizations like an IBM or a Xerox, to show them what’s going on in their culture, to suggest that employee engagement is at an all-time low, and that I can measure what’s going on in their organization and help them through strategic involvement, on how to change those levels and engage them. I did some research on Canada’s award-winning companies and saw that there are some companies who are paying attention to them.

I had a meeting the other day. A meeting was set up for me with a man who is an accountant for many of these companies and he essentially told me to go get another job, that, while culture will probably fold, ninety percent of the ills in organizations, the CEO’s and leaders that I want to talk to aren’t interested in what I’ve got to say.

BRAHM: And this ONE individual’s word was sufficient to blow your ship out of the water.

MYRNA: Absolutely.

BRAHM: And why do you think you let that happen?

MYRNA: Because I’ve never felt so poor in my entire life.

BRAHM: And you quite likely let him throw words at you that seem to confirm that somehow or other you are past your prime, that you are not as effective as you think or imagine yourself to be, and this individual only confirmed what you fear the most, correct?

MYRNA: Yes, and if I go back to that my exterior reflects my interior, then he’s reflecting my own voice…

BRAHM: Or fears.

MYRNA: Or fears….and I can’t believe that I laid myself so low with it!

BRAHM: Now, if you push aside the fears as so much more cacophony in the party crowd.

MYRNA: The party crowd?

JOHN: Noise. Background noise.

BRAHM: Indeed. Then you zoom in on alternative, significant conversations, you see that your fears, though apparently blown up in your face, are out-weighed by so many factors. That ONE setback should be considered as what? Imagine that you are a youngster experiencing his or her very, very first job interview ever, in their entire lives. Would you be happy to let that youngster be satisfied that they can now just return to the bushes, lock themselves behind closed doors, because they have been categorically told they are not wanted? What would you tell that youngster?

MYRNA: Well, I know what I would say, and in light of this meeting I’m not sure it’s appropriate. What I would say to that youngster is…..what beauty do you shine? That’s where my heart wants to go, and that beauty will find a place, where it belongs. That’s what I would say….and I’m questioning myself now. Whether my belief in heartfelt work has any place in official reality…that’s what I….I believe in myself and I believe in my heart, and I believe in my love for people and I know people feel that and I’m questioning, really doubting whether I can make any kind of living, holding space for that, for people.

BRAHM: Those are the pretty words that you are saying, but we understand that there is no disclaimer that the program being run at this moment may contain adult language?

(Group laughter)

With that in mind, we are well aware that you are holding back being angry.

MYRNA: With that man?

BRAHM: With the man, with the words and even YOUR self for having made yourself vulnerable. In that vulnerability, you think that because the individual has reflected your worst fears, there is nothing to be done, you are now defeated.

MYRNA: That’s exactly how I feel.

BRAHM: Indeed and yet, underneath that there is an individual that is railing against the very notion of defeat. “Never take me alive!” she is saying. Correct?

MYRNA: I don’t think so anymore. I think that’s the despair I feel. Now, I really, for the first time in my life, feel really beaten. I used to have that “I will take no prisoners…I won’t be taken,” I don’t know why at this stage, I don’t know…I am so confused…that I set this up for myself. I don’t know what to take away.

BRAHM: For the next few days do not take away anything and do not accept that those words are a reflection of the entire Self that you are, because they are not. They may have expressed your own fears in those areas. If you were a door-to-door salesman and the very first door you knocked on was opened and closed immediately, would you pack it in?

MYRNA: No, but this is not the first door.

MARK: It’s not the last either, though. Or need not be.

BRAHM: All we are saying is: do not consider this to be the nail that closes the coffin shut.

MYRNA: Brahm, I guess my question then is am I naive to believe that I can bring this work to the world and in return I can make a good enough living to pay the obligations that I have? Am I naive to believe that?

BRAHM: We would instead say that you are naive to assume that a few setbacks must indicate the end of the road.

MYRNA: (Chuckling) Oh, okay! All right!

BRAHM: You see, we do not take prisoners either!

MYRNA: (Laughing loudly) Oh, you’re not going to give me a way out, are you?! I just want to go crawl under…

MARK: (Breaking in) Ironically enough, if you can move past this one, because this one is identifying your fears to you. It’s showing, reflecting them right in your face and you’re seeing them very clearly now, and if you can move past this, Triple ‘A’ and move past this one, you’ve got an open road ahead of you.

BRAHM: The idea being that, understanding that mindset and developing the tools innate to your nature, strategies innate to your nature, to deliver rebuttal to that kind of individual, they would have to back down….What kind of rebuttal did you bring back to his words? It is quite possible that there was an answer expected from you. This might actually be an extremely creative strategy that you set up, not a trap, but a strategy for you to develop how to handle your own worst fear even when it springs up and like a tiger pretends to eat you on the spot. Do you understand?

MYRNA: Yes. I do. I don’t have, I didn’t have a rebuttal.

BRAHM: We know you had one, or two or three, but they were not necessarily for…proper gentlemen’s ears!

(Laughter)

MYRNA: (Laughing, but indignant) Not when he’s telling me that CEO’s of companies are bastards! And what am I doing there anyway?! And besides, they just take the whip that the board of directors put in their hands and they whip their VP’s! And I’m going, “Yep, you’re right!”

MARK: But what is your research showing you?

MYRNA: That there are men and women that don’t act like this! And then I thought the reason he’s telling me that is because that’s what he’s like! (Laughing)

BRAHM: He is letting you know that the MALE aspects of those corporations are showing it and will not take solutions offered by women.

MYRNA: He DID say, “Go talk to women.” Interesting. He did say that. That’s been my experience.

BRAHM: And a proper, or rather, improper, rebuttal would have been though you do not have his genitals, you can certainly out-think him!

(Riotous laughter)

MYRNA: Out-think him?

JOHN: There’s one for you. Yeah!

MARK: (Laughing) Imagine his reaction to that!

BRAHM: All in all, you engaged very powerful energies apparently based upon fear, BUT now how are you going to deal with the check in the game of chess? You are not check-mated, simply checked. Do you understand?

MYRNA: I do….I don’t know.

BRAHM: Sharpen your sword! You are supposed to be an Earth Goddess! And the first time a little pipsqueak roared, you crawled back into the Earth. May this be what ticks you off, though?

MYRNA: Somehow you keep picking up on this “pissed-off, ticked-off,” when all I feel is despair!

BRAHM: Yes, look behind you. There is a great deal of energy!

MYRNA: (Conceding) Yeah…there’s a lot of energy.

BRAHM: The point being, do not squander it in a volcanic explosion of intimidating profanities, but rather use it to sharpen your sword and forge ahead.

MYRNA: Okay, thank you. One last question.

BRAHM: Indeed.

MYRNA: Am I to continue to work with men?

BRAHM: That may be an indication to you that there are other kinds of gender to work with.

MYRNA: Okay.

BRAHM: And first and foremost, carry a sign, even if it is only telepathic, that you do not take prisoners when you walk into any kind of meeting of that nature. You are there expecting their full surrender and cooperation.

MYRNA: (Laughing)

BRAHM: That, Dearest, is an attitude that grabs attention!

MYRNA: Well, he did say I’m very credible. (Laughs)

BRAHM: Credentials are not going to be the only thing you…

MYRNA: No, I hear you. The attitude…

BRAHM: You need the attitude. Once you stuff your pipe with attitude then smoke it, does that mean something to you?

MYRNA: Yes. I feel better than when I started. Thank you.

BRAHM: Now for a small break, as our new friend does not yet know us.

MARK: 8:18.

(Break begins)

Mark and Serge greet Rich, an old friend who arrived during the exchange between Brahm and Myrna, make introductions all around and explain who Brahm is. Rich explains to John and Myrna that he met Mark and Serge back in 2002 during the Colorado Seth Conference and later met Kris for a private session. Rich shares with the group his current activities.

RICH: I’ve been training in past life regression hypnotherapy.

MYRNA: Are you doing Erickson?

RICH: Well, Ericksonian hypnosis is really just hypnosis. Clinicians go to great lengths to say, “We don’t do that kind of hypnosis,” although they use the textbook to do training. The distinction they make is that in hypnosis you almost force your will upon the client in terms of trying to modify their behavior. You know, [the client will] come in for something, and they’ll want something to help with [an issue or problem], but it’s almost the old concept of hypnosis, where I’m the master and …

MARK: Make you do something.

RICH: Yes and this is EXACTLY the opposite. It’s very interesting, I just listened to some tapes during a conference I went to last week where….your soul is just infinite and Kris will, and our new friend [Brahm] will, I’m sure, agree with that…it’s just infinite in where it is. I remember Kris saying at the Seth Conference, “You exist in every dimension. You exist everywhere.” And so, what transpersonal hypnotherapy says is that if you’ve got a problem in this life, then in all probability, it is something that emanates from another point and you are re-creating it symbolically in this life for you to solve it. It’s an energy issue.

I’ve learned so much that, you know, seeing that person on the outside just tells you NOTHING about them. You just don’t know what’s behind that soul. Anyway, it’s fascinating. The latest stuff that I’ve gotten interested in, and this is what I’d really like to get our friend to comment on, is “spirit release” where….virtually everyone has these “attached” spirits which can either affect you very little, or affect you to the point where you are psychotic, where you are possessed. And there is a group of transpersonal therapists that have evolved some fairly standard sophisticated and fairly simple techniques for getting rid of these things. It’s really interesting, very, very interesting.

MYRNA: Has Kris gone into any of this?

RICH: Well, we’ll find out!

MARK: He’ll give us his take on it, I’m sure.

RICH: Well, if he didn’t, I’d be surprised.

John asks Rich what he does for a living and Rich responds that aside from his regular work, he has been working on his PhD in transpersonal and past life regression hypnotherapy, now his third career.

JOHN: Well, we’ve been very excited about EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique). Do you know about it?

RICH: Yeah, I have been researching that. Serge mentioned that to me today. I will look into it more. Kris gave me about four different things and I was just amazed…it was something similar to EFT.

MARK: NLP? (Neuro-linguistic programming)

RICH: Well, NLP is one that was mentioned, it’s been around for a long time, but this other one was smaller….Energy psychology I think was one of them, and a couple of Canadian folks who had mixed things. NLP – I’ve done that, I’d like to take that. I think it’s a great augment to anything that you do.

MARK: Serge has had it, and I’ve been through it. It’s cool.

RICH: Yeah, they’re all tools in the kitbag.

MARK: (Laughing) Ironically enough, that’s what we started with [tonight], the carpenter as the builder of the Self, and Kris and Brahm offer the tools…and then the tool BELT that they plan on giving, and then the tool BOX…(chuckling)

JOHN: The part that I like, though, is towards the end of that segment, where he was saying that if you are a really, really good carpenter and you happen to forget your tools, you arrive at the situation and you evaluate it and you will be able to DEVISE a tool, on the spot! I like that!

MARK: And another thing that just came up is the “bigger net,” and to pay attention to how those signals may come back from your probe, and now, here we have Rich coming in the door, talking about what we were just talking about! (Laughs)

JOHN: What I took home from that was, being imaginative about the pro-active, expressive, energy projection part of the tool is great, but you have to be just as imaginative about the….the…dish, the net …

MYRNA: The receptor.

JOHN: Yes, the receptor to the tool. They’re both imaginative.

MYRNA: They’re coming back, and you may just not be attuned to it.

(Session resumes at 8:28 PM)

KRIS: Now, we trust that you are all comfortable. (There are exclamations of surprise as the group does a double take: Kris is now speaking instead of Brahm.) We thank you for your consideration.

JOHN: Well, Kris! This is a first isn’t it? The old switcheroo!

KRIS: If you can switch, so can we! (Everyone laughs) From someone who feels less than a god or goddess to someone who stands up, stamps their foot on the ground and says, “Damn it all! I am who I am!” Correct?

MYRNA: (Laughing) Yeah!

KRIS: (To Rich) And it is a lovely pleasure to see you once again.

RICH: Thank you.

KRIS: It is unfortunate that this is not a pub, as this would be a wonderful opportunity to reminisce with yourself.

RICH: Yes it would. We’ll do it psychically.

KRIS: Indeed. Now you mentioned an interesting development in your field of interests at this point in your life and we would care to be indulged in this: that there are no outside agencies or forces that subjugate any individual in any way, shape, or form, to do anything against their will, as any good Hypnotherapist also understands that they cannot hypnotize he or she who does not want to.

That being, we understand the principle behind what you would define as spirit release, but there is a basic error in the equation and if you create large mathematical equation but your beginning numbers have an error somewhere, you may happily continue to create your mathematical edifice, however at one point or another, you will come to realize that the edifice may crumble because the numbers are off.

And by this we simply mean that since there are no outside agencies or force to subjugate an individual against his or her own will, then, there cannot be outside spirits that possess anyone in any way, shape or form. However, there is the fact that individuals have aspects, shadow aspects, that they do not wish to deal with. And it can be any kind of pain that they have endured but did not want to deal with, buried sometimes very deeply in the unconscious.

But as was pointed out to Philip some short time ago, if you put together all of the ingredients for dough, bread dough, and you take the container and shove it in the cupboard, what do you think happens after awhile? Does it simply disappear? Or does the dough keep rising until it BURSTS the cupboard doors open, spills all the contents, and then you have a real mess to clean up. Does that make sense to you?

RICH: Sure.

KRIS: What we are saying is that separated aspects of Self, separated willfully, do not go anywhere, nor do they disappear. They are shoved into the cupboard of the unconscious. Somehow or other, they will surface again, perhaps through physical allegory, meaning symptoms of dis-ease in one form or another and that will draw your attention. It might also manifest itself as various types of psychosis, neurosis, psychological displacement, and that is the issue at hand.

Now, if the therapist wishes to disguise in the form of outside, foreign agencies, agencies, intelligences, alien to the poor individual who suffers the consequences of his ignorance, you not only enhance that individual’s sense of disempowerment, but it also sets up the conditions such as if in the near or far future there is still the possibility that he may be subject to such situations and will have to come back to the therapist.

And what is the difference from the ju-ju witchcraft doctor who says if you pray this way, if you take this amulet, you will never have bad luck, but if you lose it, you are up the creek! You have no power, but the ju-ju has the power. Do you understand?

RICH: (Chuckling) Yes.

KRIS: It is a very fine line, it is much more subtle than the dance of the seven veils, maybe eight veils, but the point of power has to be demonstrated to the individual. That is where the individual begins the process of rooting themselves in the fact that they need to acknowledge their issues, address their issues, and accept themselves. That way you directly or indirectly announce to them the birth of THEIR event as an Earth god or goddess in that sense of the word. Whether you hear trumpets or not is irrelevant.

Whether the magi come or not is irrelevant, but there is a gift being returned to the individual, the gift of their individuality and by understanding that they are whole and complete, they have then the power and the ability to recognize they have never been subject to invasions of one kind or intrusions of one kind or another, but that they always were in control of their situation. Does that make some sense?

RICH: Yeah, yeah…I mean I …

KRIS: It is a deep subject.

RICH: Yeah, and I guess the question is how do you get there? How do you get these individuals to see these different parts of themselves? Let’s assume that the possession, if that’s what you want to call it, is symbolic. If it’s symbolic to the personality, it can be quite useful to work with it then.

KRIS: Indeed.

RICH: If you get them to realize that.

KRIS: Have them, and of course we cannot give you the whole kit and caboodle in a few moments or even evenings, but, by bringing the individual to a place of understanding that there ARE these shadow issues, there are many things they have denied within themselves, and that, in your environment, in your presence, that you reflect to them that you symbolize permission to actually release those shadows.

Whether they are in the guise of invading spirits or not, they could not have undergone the event without acquiescing to it and you symbolize that authority of themselves that says “Now is the moment, now in this present moment, you have the opportunity to empty your wastebasket, purge your system of unwanted elements, and the only way to do that is to accept. Accept Self. Whether parts of Self are dirty, sinful, nasty, murderous, these are only emotions. These are feelings and feelings are energy. They are mistranslated through belief systems. By assisting them to accept themselves, sinful self and all, then you allow THEM to solve THEIR issues.

RICH: Right, now Kris do you see that also as echoing across lives? That is, if there is a sinful self in a so-called past life, does that sinful self impact this life, so that you’ve got to bring those two into a kind of union to release it?

KRIS: The sinful or shadow aspects of any other existence represent today’s shadows.

RICH: Okay, got it. Got it.

KRIS: They are projected outwards into another time and space. They, the past lives’ sinful ideas, are symbolic of what is NOT ACCEPTED TODAY.

RICH: Got it.

KRIS: We sometimes will deal directly with that, bringing it into today’s events and circumstances. One has to develop the ability of the best of ballroom dancers, so that you can take your partner into any swing and any direction possible. That makes a beautiful dance. If there is resistance, you move into another step. Do you understand?

RICH: Got it, yeah. So…what I am saying, without using the term, is Karma. But you’re saying that Karma is kind of a reverse context than the way it is traditionally thought of.

KRIS: Karma does signify that for every action there is a reaction. Actions exist in the present. Now that present can also include other lives, but in this lifetime, in this moment, it is the actions of the present that are important. And the so-called past lives are not the cause of, but the other way around.

RICH: Yeah. I hear ya.

KRIS: By freeing, thus accepting, the moment, the past or future selves are also often released. So it is an intricate web, but one of unimaginable beauty because it is all, every aspect of the web, every intersecting fiber, is a most beautiful jewel of creation. Something even the best spider cannot accomplish. Does that make sense to you?

RICH: Yes, it does. It actually turns the whole thing around, but the constellation is still there.

KRIS: Indeed.

RICH: Yeah.

MYRNA: Kris, may I ask…

KRIS: Indeed!

MYRNA: You said something about shadow aspects being misrepresentations or misinterpretations of energy. I’d like to understand that more. I understand shadow aspects…

KRIS: Indeed.

MYRNA: So if there is a murderous self in me, what is the misinterpretation?

KRIS: The feelings are themselves interpretations of energies. When it is considered to be something that must be denied, such as: “Good girls do not become cheerleaders,” as a benign example, then that girl’s desires to become a cheerleader may be suppressed because there are dark associations with being a cheerleader.

MYRNA: Right.

KRIS: That is a very benign example, but the stronger the desire to be, the stronger the effort to suppress the desire and then anything that is even remotely associated with cheerleader or cheerleading even in general, becomes taboo, becomes something to be avoided.

MYRNA: I understand that, I don’t understand the word “misinterpretation.”

KRIS: The energy is actually totally neutral, but if there are beliefs associated, then the misinterpretation comes with the association of the energy with negativity.

MYRNA: Got it.

KRIS: Once the charge of polarity is reversed, then the individual may realize that, though some cheerleaders may indeed have fun with the entire basketball team, not all cheerleaders necessarily want to play with the basketball team. Do you follow?

MYRNA: Yes, of course.

MARK: That is particularly valid for me, and I’m not talking about the cheerleaders,

(Group laughter)

But lately, through the last several weeks and months with the material, I am really identifying the moments and the situations through my childhood where I denied aspects of my own self because of these little one-liners said by a parent or an adult, or a brother, a sibling, and taken it to heart. When I was out of high school I had a lot of jobs. Two of them were my own businesses and I was considered…I was PUNISHED for that, because all the other kids were skipping school to go smoke drugs at the railway track or whatever. I wasn’t behaving in the normal way that a child that age should. So they shipped me off to somewhere else. So that denial caused me to deny myself. And all that’s coming up right now. It’s the little things like that.

KRIS: As we have suggested in the not-too-distant past: there are two kinds of denials. There is the denial of the event, and then there is denying of that part of Self that felt vulnerable due to the event. That double denial is of course, a choice, but it is also something so very little addressed in your societies and even in your own therapies.

MYRNA: Okay, well this is really important. Shadow work is really important.

KRIS: Indeed it is.

MYRNA: Okay, let’s go back to denial for a moment. Can you give me an example of a denial of an event?

KRIS: Indeed. Philip (Mark) was physically abused by a brother.

MYRNA: Okay. All right.

KRIS: For the longest time, there was denial of the pain caused by that kind of a breach of trust and vulnerability, but also wanting to punish, therefore deny, that part of himself that actually made himself vulnerable to those situations.

MYRNA: Uh-huh.

KRIS: The abused wife, or sometimes husband, will also undergo a similar process of double denial and so on and so forth, the victim of a mugging and so many other situations. Does that make some sense?

MYRNA: Yes.

KRIS: (To Rich) And to you as well?

RICH: Yeah. How do we deal with that?

KRIS: Triple ‘A’. And you will find that once you begin to investigate EFT, it is a wonderful representation of our Triple ‘A’: Acknowledging, Addressing and Accepting. Now we will give you a lovely break. No denying that!

(Laughter)

MARK: 8:48.

(Break begins.)

JOHN: What I like about that double denial is: If you’ve got a DOUBLE denial, then we’ve got a TRIPLE ‘A’ to fix it!

(Laughter)

MYRNA: (To Mark) Let me ask you a question, if you don’t mind me using your example?

MARK: No, not at all.

MYRNA: Based on what I’ve learned from Kris, your brother represented an aspect of you. You created that, there’s no agency outside of that, correct?

MARK: Right.

MYRNA: So your brother’s abuse reflects back an abusive self?

MARK: Reflected, I guess my own fears, my own inadequacies, my own unworthiness, that type of things.

JOHN: Your own punishment of your vulnerability.

MARK: Now, for instance, my brother would attack me under a specific instance. I was better in school and therefore, I stopped being better in school because: Pain. (Laughs) I would deny that aspect of myself. I wouldn’t finish projects, this type of thing. I knew the answers, but I wouldn’t put my hand up. I started to deny aspects of myself that were actually very powerful. Not in negative aspects, [but] very positive aspects.

MYRNA: Yeah, I understand, but if I may, Mark, [Kris] was talking about denial of vulnerability….I want to go back there very specifically. Deny the event and deny the vulnerability, he used the word vulnerability twice, so is the vulnerability that you set this [situation with your brother] up?

MARK: What did I do to cause that, too?

MYRNA: I don’t know, I want to clarify that.

MARK: What made me vulnerable to the beatings? What did I do? So therefore I was this [indistinguishable word]. It would cause me to get beaten up, so…

SERGE: (Breaking in) I think she’s wondering too…like I remember the conversation Kris had with you about this two or three months ago….but basically…there’s a part of him that suffered abuse, and then also being angry and wanting to deny that part of him that left him open that may have caused this.

MYRNA: Yeah, that’s what I’m getting at.

JOHN: If I could just interject…we have a tendency to feel for the word “vulnerable” as a negative connotation, but if you look at Elias, he right in on this: he says that in order to receive, we have to be open and being open means being vulnerable; and so, one of the things that you might deny….if somebody beat you up, then not only do you want to suppress the memory of that event, but you’re also saying, “Hmmm, I can’t afford to be vulnerable, I can’t afford…”

MYRNA: Exactly!

JOHN: And being vulnerable is important.

MARK: Yes, you definitely start closing doors.

MYRNA: Yes, that’s the part he said is not being addressed. Even in the shadow work that we do.

MARK: And the fact that my brother was an aspect of Self.

MYRNA: Right!

MARK: And that I sort of denied that, you know, the whole victimhood thing, and denied the aspects of Self that would even do this to self.

MYRNA: Denied the sweetness and the innocence and the openness, and being good at whatever, right?

MARK: Yes.

MYRNA: There’s the vulnerable, receptive part, right? And you brought this in on it, that part of you. Hey, that….and I’ve done a lot of shadow work….that is the part that Kris has to offer around shadow work that has not been covered. Jung and all the therapists have done a really good piece on it, [but] he brings a very different aspect to it.

RICH: How many other lives are there, where this pattern is repeated…victimhood…AND, there’s a school there that says somewhere there’s the polarity of it.

MARK: From my understanding….say Essence wants to choose to experience or experiment in wealth, it’s going to create a very rich focus, a very poor focus, in all the shades of grey….so yes, if you are at this end of the scale, there is that other end of the scale out there.

RICH: When you understand that, the problems with this end of it are resolved, are dealt with.

MYRNA: Right. I have a problem with the word “victimhood” after having worked with Kris and that whole concept of there’s no agency outside of us.

RICH: Well, victimhood is a mental state, it is not what’s done to you, it’s the way you respond to it. It’s not victimhood in the sense that something is perpetrated upon you. Again in the context of the discussion, victimhood is that aspect of yourself that picks up that role. It’s an architect. Something that you would enjoy very much…I listened to Caroline Myss’ CD…do you know who that is?

MYRNA: Yes.

RICH: She’s unbelievable, but anyway, that’s what you do, you bring up those pieces and suddenly, when you see this other part to it, this whole concept of victimhood opens wide….you understand it.

MYRNA: This is a choice in this focus, and I have a choice here.

RICH: And you have the power to change your focus.

MYRNA: Exactly.

MARK: Earlier, the example that you brought up, with what the guy said to you and your response to it. You know you could have said, you could have had a rebuttal or a different rebuttal, and you chose a different path.

MYRNA: I did.

MARK: That’s a very similar scenario.

MYRNA: Yep.

MARK: That conversation that Serge was referring to, you know, we are starting to realize the hamster wheel that we get on with victimhood, because we think we get off it, we think we understand, and then we turn around and say, “Oh, I’m being taken advantage of at work.” That’s just another scenario on that wheel, you know?

RICH: Yeah, I’ve played that at work, too.

MARK: We keep doing it. To lesser degrees, I think, but…

RICH: It kind of…and you know what? That avoids responsibility, I think then we don’t have to face it.

MARK: (Humorously) Well, I do…living with this in the house (indicating Serge/Kris)… (Laughing) I get told!

(Everyone laughs)

SERGE: Somehow or other, I feel like chopped liver…I wonder why?

MARK: (Chuckling) That’s a compliment, not a [put-down].

JOHN: I like what he…I think it was Kris…ah, I’m getting mixed up…oh, who knows who’s coming through? (Laughter) But…

SERGE: (Jokingly) Cousin It!

JOHN: But I like what he said about EFT and Triple ‘A’, that’s been my experience, that is that it’s been a very….in a way, you could think of the tapping and whatnot as almost a ritualistic acceptance.

MARK: Both of them, especially Kris, have really tied in ritual and ceremony into the healing aspects of all of his modalities…the workshops, because ritual and ceremony are very much of who and what we are.

RICH: Very resonant, yeah.

MYRNA: What I find with EFT is in that first piece, is eliminating beliefs, right? It’s a reflection of a limiting belief.

JOHN: It’s a feeling you have that is filtered through a limiting belief.

MYRNA: Correct, right, and the acceptance for that, right? For me, opens up doors into something else that’s possible. You can’t find that other door until you’ve accepted it.

JOHN: Yeah. Well, for instance, for you to say as you did to me last week: “Even though I go to the worst-case scenario whenever there’s a medical issue with my family, I totally and completely accept myself.” Now see, always before you have said, “I go to the worst-case scenario on a medical issue and I really don’t like that part of myself.” It’s the opposite of accepting.

MYRNA: It is. Exactly….which allows me to go to best-case scenario.

JOHN: Yes.

MYRNA: It’s very powerful.

JOHN: And not force your family to act out your medical fantasies! (Chuckling)

MYRNA: Exactly.

JOHN: (Laughing) I mean, give them a break!

MYRNA: Oh, yes! They’ve gotta be saying, “Thank you, Myrna! Thank you, Kris! We don’t have to act this out!”

SERGE: Send them an invoice.

(Group laughter)

(Break ends at 8:59 PM)

BRAHM: Now you are most likely sitting there wondering “who next?”

MARK: (Identifying) Brahm.

JOHN: (Singing) Brahm’s back!

BRAHM: Now this is, in some respects, most important for Joseph to experience: this kind of flexibility, not unlike someone learning to awaken several times throughout the night for the sake of enhancing their flexibility in consciousness with dream work. Now, all of the discussion is far more important than you realize, especially if you take into consideration that you have spoken as human beings, but you are developing understanding from a wider perspective.

And if you simply climb up a few more steps on the ladder of perception, you will see that all of the discussions and all of the human experiences with victimhood, with powerlessness, have nothing to do with the issues themselves. If the individual IS Earth god, Earth goddess, it is not as if they are that one day, and the next they are not. They always are. For the sake of the play, there may very well be acting as if one has temporarily suspended their great power in order to achieve a specific goal.

And even though from your temporal time-space perspective, you may bemoan the fact that you do not see far enough to understand the reasons why you or others may play certain roles, you also can understand that there is another vantage point within your consciousness that actually understands, knows, exactly what is going on; and that you can tap into, you can actually shift your awareness, into that wider perspective, of the wider range of awareness.

And even if you only perceive small glimpses of the dynamics involved, even those small glimpses can be enough to heal your situation, to remind you that you are eternal, immortal beings, and even though you play at getting lost in the maze, you create the darn maze in the first place!

(Laughter)

So you know where the dead ends are, and if you run into them, you know how to get out of them. As soon as you surrender that power, you appear to be caught up in the hamster wheel, over and over again. Now we must insist that, from another perspective, a wider perspective of awareness, you are all completely wise, enlightened, and quite sage about your game plan. Pretend, from time to time, that any and all of the events of your life so far, you actually knew what you were doing. Even when you thought you didn’t, you knew what you were doing.

And look at your life from that lens and you may get some very interesting and unique surprises. And be open to them. It is in the pretending that you discover you always had the power you needed. It is when you stop that you lose your power and you think we are making a distinction for now between pretending and thinking. You think suddenly you are disowned by your own self.

JOHN: So pretending is putting your magician’s hat on.

BRAHM: Indeed.

JOHN: Got it!

BRAHM: What is the time?

MARK: 9:06.

BRAHM: Then we will take leave of your lovely selves. We thank each of you for not forgetting that you are magnificent creatures beyond time and space. You are magnificent jewels of consciousness, just that we suggest you do not let Joan Rivers sell you! Now, have a pleasant evening.

(Session ends at 9:07 PM)

Tool Box: Awakening the 3 Dragons

August 13, 2006

Note to parents and other concerned adults! Kris is a pretty horny old toad and frequently talks about
sex in quite provocative ways! [This is something we have to be frank about so as not to mislead those who are merely browsing.] Be assured, dear browsing consumer, that Kris goes for the jugular, or the groin [often both] every time!

‘Awakening the Dragons’ is a frankly sexual tool. [or at the very least ‘sensual' to the max, if you get my drift J].

The suggestion is, upon commencing our usual erotic programs and processes and procedures, with or without willing bystanders, that we gently touch or brush ourselves in the three areas indicated in the diagram [always the left side of the body] That is to say; 1 – the groin, 2 – the waist, and 3 – the neck, just under the ear. Then stand back! Because this can release some quite amazing energies!

“When you awaken the three dragons, the energies can be directed to any part of the body that you so desire, whether it is the feet, the calves, the legs, the hair, the chest, regardless, the energy can be greatly enhanced. And if you are with a partner, together the two of you can greatly enhance the exchange of energy that you are in the process of cultivating and give yourselves or your partners many sensations and feelings beyond the norm, especially if you are able to concern yourselves more with your partner’s pleasures than with your own.

That, in many respects, is the norm for enhanced sensual, erotic, sexual, spiritual experiences when partners are involved: that the onus be on giving the partner the utmost sensations and pleasures.’ – Awakening the Three Dragons – Aug 13 06

Awakening the Three Dragons

August 13, 2006

Channeled by Serge J. Grandbois and Transcribed by Ellen Gilbert (Kwaa’Ji)
Recorded in Toronto, Canada on August 13, 2006

Summary Roll Call: Serge, Mark, John, Ellen, Brian, Cathy, Tim, Tom, Marcos, Ester, Lisa, and Anya

(7:51 PM Session begins.)

KRIS: Now we trust that you are all comfortable and we thank you for your lovely consideration. As you may have heard, this evening’s presentation should at least be somewhat titillating (Group chuckling) to say the least! However, we reserve the right to not give away too many secrets. The major topic then for the evening is “Sexuality and Spirituality” and we wish to bring this about for several reasons.

One, this is a subject matter that is very rarely addressed in these types of situations, for one reason or another. Secondly, a great deal of people are under the assumption that sex, sexuality and spirituality are completely incompatible, that they might even be diametrically opposed to each other. Thirdly, it is in general considered that sex is something entirely limited to one’s genitals and therefore as a consequence of this thinking, your sexual experiences are often short-lived, sometimes prematurely, pun fully intended! And the depth of your sexual experiences is often lacking and unfulfilled. Thus perhaps we can attempt to bring some light to this often-tabooed subject matter, after which you may all go have a cigarette!

(Group laughter)

Or pretend to have one. Now in the western culture particularly and in those groups that belong to Judeo-Christian origins, sex, sexuality and spirituality have been carefully, almost surgically removed from each other and this is indeed an unfortunate situation, because not only are your sexual experiences often of little fulfillment and short-lived, but even your spiritual experiences are handicapped, often to a great degree.

And in your Judeo-Christian world views and even if you think you do not abide or have anything to do with such worldviews, we humbly ask that you look around you at the world you live in to see a reflection of your worldview! And with that said and done, the sexual experiences encountered by most people in the western world often centers around the sex act when you copulate and as a result of that limited perception, you do miss out on much greater extended sexual and sensual experience, especially when it is considered that sexuality and sex itself are to be kept behind closed doors, never to be made mention of.

And this only adds to the burdens of guilt and shame that many of you have been brought up with, especially concerning sex and sexuality, your own bodies, and your own genitals and what you do with them, as if this whole enterprise is indeed a dirty business, that it soils and spoils the soul and your spiritual journey.

And if you only understood that your spiritual journey, your journey of discovery of Self, your awakening to self-awareness can be greatly enhanced were you to shift your understandings and beliefs concerning these three words: sex, sexuality, and spirituality. And the depth of your human experience would greatly be embellished if not heightened. There have been many cultures on your world where the separations were indeed very thin, if there were any at all, and where individuals were not brought up with the sense of guilt and shame that many in your modern world experience along those lines.

Many ancient temples, especially dedicated to old goddesses and feminine principles, were managed not only by what you often refer to as priestesses, but many of those priestesses were in fact sacred prostitutes that assisted both men and women to recognize and connect with their own divinity and sexuality through the body experience in such a manner that the individual could realize a fuller potential and a more grounded experience in his or her sexuality and spirituality within one.

This ancient system was indeed frowned upon by newly established orders pertaining to a patriarchal deity. That is why in many biblical books there are references to “temple whores,” simply because this type of spiritual/physical connection simply did not fit the order of a regime that insists that you buy their goods, the goods being guilt and shame, especially about your sexuality, your genitals, sex, and everything related to it, which is the one fastest and most potent way to control the population before you lead them into other stages of indoctrination.

And if there are priestesses and priests who assist an individual to connect with the Divine through sacred sexual acts in such a manner that it gives the individual, male or female, a direct connection to their Divine aspects, then of what use is a new religion that seeks to instill DENIAL as a means through salvation, when you offer PLEASURE as a means to salvage yourself?

JOHN: A hard sell.

KRIS: Indeed! A hard sell.

JOHN: (Chuckling)

KRIS: And there is only one way to get around the competition: eliminate them, demonize them, turn them into whores and abominations and anything related to what they taught as an abomination itself.

Thus, a few thousand years ago, a different worldview slowly crept into the populace like a fog that hid certain truths from the observer through fear, domination and so on and so forth. And your society, with its many different neuroses and psychoses, especially concerning sexuality and sex, are the results of those indoctrinations.

We are aware that some people might even say right now, “But that is not the case! I have had so much sex that I do not care about these things!” And that is our point: that often you have numbed yourselves from your own issues of shame and guilt that you cannot recognize it for what it is. We are not saying here to bring back old religions, or religious ideals. That is not and never was our purpose. But we are saying that there are ways to alter your own beliefs and perceptions on those issues.

There are alternatives quite readily available to you that can indeed assist you to understand those issues from the inside out. And these simple methods are potent enough that even your own spirituality may indeed be transformed where there is very little separation between what you call the spiritual, the sexual, the sensual, the erotic, and sex. That it is indeed part of the greater experience of your being, a lovely interpretation of your deeper energies and a much better understanding of the lovely grace-filled nature of your own creaturehood in such a way that you do not need to continue cultivating shame and guilt especially upon those aspects of your Being.

The core of all of this, simply stated, is Eros. Would Philip be so kind as to read the dictionary’s definition of Eros?

MARK: Please stand by.

(Reading) “Sexual love akin to the Greek Eros, tied to love and desire. The Greek god of erotic love. Compare to Cupid. The aggregate of life preserving instincts that are manifested as impulses to gratify basic needs, as sex. Sublimated impulses motivated by the same needs and impulses serving to protect and preserve the body and the mind.”

KRIS: That indeed is a most interesting definition and there are key words in here most necessary to understand specifically in relation to the very nature of the core of your Being. (Loudly) DESIRE AND IMPULSE, WHICH IS THE BASIS OF ALL CREATION. Desire and impulse! So deep runs this river of powerful energies that it stands right at the heart of ‘All That Is’. It is what produces the Uguur! It is what produces Entity, Essence, focus personalities and from that vantage point, the focus personality taps into that vast reservoir of energy to create its own conditions at all levels.

You tap into that great power every time you create. And that means that you never turn it off because you are always in a state of creating. You cannot avoid creating. It is what you do naturally, as naturally as physical beings you breathe. It is innate to your nature to breathe, as it is innate to your nature to create. This does not limit itself to procreation, but the simple act of being is a creative act and you tap into the root of that power which transcends all time and space because it is directly linked to the Uguur: ‘All That Is’.

So no wonder, in many respects, that Eros, that creative power and drive, permeates the physical universe in all manners. Now you may not think it is exceptionally erotic to watch a leaf on a twig, attached to a branch, or to watch a dewdrop dangle on the tip of a leaf, or a spider web or to watch a bird stretch its wings and fly, or to watch yourself or other human beings go about their daily business.

However, if you manage to tap into that rich vein of Eros, that erotic energy that is and permeates everything and everywhere, then indeed you might begin to glimpse at how everything, ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING can be a sensual, erotic act in some form, even though it is not expressed within the narrow views that you have grown up considering sensuality, eroticism, sex, sexuality, and even spirituality.

Even the most basic spiritual principles that you often adhere to and develop, such as creating union with your inner selves, your higher selves or ‘All That Is’, your Essence and so on, you may think of it as merely nothing but a spiritual act. Yet if we utilize the ancient word in Sanskrit, the ancient word “Tantra” as we have expressed some time ago but briefly: Tantra means “to weave or bring together.” It is another form of the word “yoga” which means “to bring union, to make one.”

So, even that most revered spiritual act of connecting with Source in some way is also extremely sensual, erotic an act. And when you engage in eroticism with another individual, regardless of gender and orientation, what do you do? Apart from the obvious fornication, there is still a deep energetic act of coming together, bringing oneness, even if for a brief time, and it too can be an extremely spiritual and erotic act together. And in many respects because you are accustomed to localizing your erotic energies, merely at the level of the genitals, you miss out on so much more that is available to you.

You may even consider that, as some people are wont to say, “Perhaps your biggest sexual organ is your brain!” That is only a part of the picture that your entire Being can qualify as a sexual organ, your entire physical being and so much more. But it is not what we explain to you that will make a difference, but rather what you venture to discover on your own, or with someone else, the someone else is not necessary.

We have often, on many private discussions with individuals, suggested that they expand the age-old idiom that you need to learn to love yourself more. Take it out of the intellectual and bring it into the visceral, physical realm and learn to make love to yourself as you would desire you be made love to for an inkling of the depth of the experiences available to you. And that is merely the beginning of so much more.

Now, what is the time?

MARK: 8:22.

KRIS: We suggest a small cigarette break for those who need to puff!

(8:22 PM Break begins)

BRIAN: This is very interesting. I like where he’s going with this. About time, huh? It’s just the base element of physical reality anyway: sexuality and emotions.

TOM: I like the way he’s tying it in with our belief systems and religious beliefs. We think we’re free of those, but he’s showing us: “Look around you.” It really gets you thinking.

(Various responses in agreement)

ELLEN: Yeah, how many people talk about being “recovering Catholics”…..fundamentalist Christians.

(There is a period of silence on the lines and Serge calls out “Is anybody there?” Some people laugh, but there seems to be a feeling of shyness among the participants.)

TOM: (Chuckling) It’s hard to imagine where we’re going to go next with this! [We don't know] what questions to ask.

ELLEN: You know I wrote a post just earlier today where I mentioned the power of the sexual energy that….it really is a force that drives our Beings, and it just….the way we try to negate it and suppress it causes so many problem, so….I had a dream once that I discussed with Kris where I recall I was trying to hide from an entire pride of lions. There were a lot of lions all over and….I couldn’t really hide from them, they were just…there…but I was very much afraid of them.

And they really weren’t threatening me, but they were….I realized that it was….well (chuckling) Kris intimated that it was my own sexual energy that I was afraid was going to go out of control. And I was thinking today of that dream and how all of those lions were like the fact that they weren’t really threatening me and yet I was afraid of them, I realized they were like a tremendous gathering of force that was just awaiting some direction.

And that’s what I needed to do, was to find a way to channel and direct this force. I recently did a Tarot reading with a new set of cards and two cards came up, I used a spread I designed myself, two cards came up in very prominent positions. One card was called “Emotions” and the other was called “Appetite.” And the Appetite card was basically about that sexual energy.

I turned over the last card which was supposed to describe what Essence has to offer me with those energies I was bringing to it, and the Essence card was called “Creativity.” So all of these, the energies of emotions and sexuality really are meant to lead you to creativity in whatever area that means for you as a focus. That could be music or art. It could be becoming a parent, writing, speech-making, or just living. It’s all a creative act and it’s all driven by this force of sexuality and emotionality.

(8:29 PM Kris returns)

KRIS: (Ironically) We are glad then that our subject matter has brought you to much discussion!

(Laughter)

In many older cultures’, ancient societies, sexuality and spirituality were understood to be simply different expressions of that deeper connection. There did come a time then when those two views were separated and divorced from each other by a need to conquer and then divide, and some other cultures divided then conquered, the point being that there did occur a schism as an experimentation in consciousness.

What kind of culture and civilization can be brought about based on the principles of a flawed and even damned inner self, as opposed to a culture and civilization based upon principles of union WITH an inner self? And thus you are now reaping the harvest of such thoughts and experimentations. It may be easy to assume that in your present culture in North America, you are living in a very open society, but do not be so easily fooled.

The repressive views and beliefs that you have not accepted but merely denied further, are expressed through many venues, some as the Religious Right and their agendas and puritanical views, which by the way, have become far more vocal in the last decade. There are other groups the world over that are experiencing similar advances where the notions of openly discussing these issues is becoming more and more taboo, whilst on the other hand there are groups that are also making great attempts to open the doors to discussion and exploration of these deeply repressed issues.

And this is also very significant. By and large, the overall condition is such that there is a small bit of headway being made to reconcile divergent worldviews and to bring about a new perception, and it must first of all be experienced at the individual level. And that experience involves the individual dealing with and accepting their own issues of guilt and shame and learning to love themselves, not merely as an intellectual ideal, but in a very real, creaturehood fashion.

And once you are able to understand the greater depth of love in that sense, it will also be so much easier to perceive how those energies that you give to yourself, literally can permeate the environment and surround you, LITERALLY surround you, at all times. Most of you do not specifically recognize yet what it is that you may dislike, despise, or even hate the most, and many do speak the words, “Yes, Kris, I DO love myself!” and deny their own self-dislike and profess that “If I love myself, I cannot possibly dislike myself, now can I?”

Our premise is that most say they love themselves because they recognize, even if subjectively, how they dislike themselves and consider that which they do not dislike to be love. And it is a tricky issue, but our contention is that you might not understand the depth of love of Self and we are not speaking in a narcissistic, psychotic fashion, but genuine love of Self must also include those aspects of Self you would consider worthy of dislike. And when you can embrace all those aspects and parts of Self, a different experience takes over.

All of those parts or aspects of Self that you can honestly and truthfully recognize that you dislike about yourself, you often do so because you are afraid that otherwise you will love yourself. Because if you do admit that you love yourself, that you can fall in love WITH love, things change, reality changes. It transforms itself. It is recognized as an extension of your being, an expression of your greater Being.

And that love that you can express to yourself naturally is recognized everywhere and anywhere at all times. And at the individual, personal level, that which you used to consider shameful, taboo, in other words, the sexual, sensual aspects of your being, are no longer limited to a few moments behind closed doors in shame and guilt, but become the experience of the day because it is to be found anywhere and everywhere, with and within all things and all Beings.

That is the energy, and once you release by accepting all those shame-filled and guilt-filled aspects of your Being and transform them through your love, your experience of being who you are is so completely different that you will marvel at how you could have thought beforehand that you were a complete Self!

Because, many people who now consider themselves whole and complete do not even recognize that they have aspects of their being that are laden with guilt and shame because they are blind to their issues. So we are presenting this in an attempt to open the eyes to a deeper and greater experience of your being that is already innate to your nature. It does not mean that you must become sacred prostitutes and whores. It only means that you can and you have the potential and you have the ability to allow yourselves the joy of pleasure.

Do you think that the Uguur, the ‘All That Is’s’, go through their processes because they want a bad day?! Indeed not! There is an understood principle that this great, sensual, erotic act of creating Entities and Essences and focus personalities is a JOYOUS adventure! It is filled with pleasure! The buck stops there where you slam the brakes with indoctrinations of guilt and shame. And we are stating that a heightened, erotic, sensual, sexual experience of Self is key. Not merely intellectualizations, but that the act of BEING and ENJOYING that love is key to releasing many of your own often-denied barriers.

For so long many of you have locked your own erotic, sensual experiences to your genitals that you do not recognize, you no longer view that there is so much more, even at the bodily level, that can bring you heightened bliss. (Pause) This is something you will have to discover for yourselves, but we can share with you that furtively giving yourselves two or three minutes of quick pleasure to relieve an itch or an urge followed by intense waves of guilt and shame is not very conducive to your well-being!

So we would definitely suggest that you work at releasing your issues of guilt and shame and recognize that those aspects of your being, whether psychological, emotional, or even physical, that you do not like, or that you even hate, be looked at more carefully because they usually hide another secret. Those aspects of your being, physical, emotional, psychological, that you dislike or even hate about yourself, have been put there by you to hide the fact that you can actually have a deep love for yourself. So if any of you like a good dare, and not merely a double dare, but a good old-fashioned TRIPLE DOG DARE, then indeed take the challenge!

Make yourselves sufficiently vulnerable so that you indeed fall in love. Not with yourself in a narcissistic way, but fall in love with love and let that be your energy. That powerful Eros can be your focal point and to assist you, we will share with you a very small process we call “AWAKENING THE THREE DRAGONS.”

There are three principle points within the body that can be lightly touched, preferably once you have begun any of your own practices towards sexuality and eroticism, whether with yourself or with a partner or any other groups. And this is very simple: they are on the left side of the body. They only require a gentle rubbing. Whether clockwise, counter-clockwise is of no relevance, but a gentle rubbing with the fingertips.

The first point is in the left groin. A gentle fingertip brushing upon the skin at those areas, once you already are in the mood, so to speak, followed by a similar rubbing at about waist [level] at the left side, followed by a similar gentle rubbing of the skin of the body on the left side, we believe you call it, the nape of your neck, is this correct?,

JOHN: The nape? Can you show?

KRIS: (Indicating) In this area.

JOHN: Yes.

KRIS: Indeed then, the left side of the neck. Gentle rubbings of each area can greatly heighten the mood and the energies and deepen your experiences. For some people the effects might be fairly rapidly recognized. For others it may take longer for the results to appear to be made recognizable. This will be even more difficult to recognize the more issues of guilt and shame that you hold towards yourselves sexually, sensually, erotically, and spiritually. We highly advise that this practice not be done in public.

(General chuckling)

When you awaken the three dragons, the energies can be directed to any part of the body that you so desire, whether it is the feet, the calves, the legs, the hair, the chest, regardless, the energy can be greatly enhanced. And if you are with a partner, together the two of you can greatly enhance the exchange of energy that you are in the process of cultivating and give yourselves or your partners many sensations and feelings beyond the norm, especially if you are able to concern yourselves more with your partner’s pleasures than with your own.

That, in many respects, is the norm for enhanced sensual, erotic, sexual, spiritual experiences when partners are involved: that the onus be on giving the partner the utmost sensations and pleasures. Now what is the time?

MARK: 8:59.

KRIS: Then we suggest another small cigarette break!

(Break begins at 8:59 PM.)

BRIAN: Hey John! Are you going to make a chart of this one too, please?

JOHN: No problem, I already have the sketch! I’m just going to look up the nape of the neck, I don’t think that’s quite right, I think that’s the back.

MARK: [The area Kris indicated] runs from the ear down.

JOHN: Yeah, at the side.

(John and Mark look ‘nape’ up in the dictionary and decide that the term is incorrect.)

MARK: I would say that it’s not the nape of the neck, but it’s from the earlobe down the left side of the shoulder to the collarbone.

JOHN: The groin [area] is right at the crease? Also, a question [to ask] is which hand to use.

MARK: That came to my mind too…to have him clarify that….Okay, we’re back.

(Kris returns at 9:02)

KRIS: Now we trust that none of you are breathing too heavy! The main point is to understand that there is no need to separate your spiritual, erotic and sexual experiences and by recognizing your own issues of guilt and shame, whether about body parts, whether about ideals and ideas and philosophies and teachings about sex and sexuality, about morals and so on, to embrace and accept them, to recognize the great heights of love that are yours to tap into. Now are there any questions?

MARK: Anybody? (Pause)

Well, I’ll start by asking the question I just finished asking, at break someone asked: Does it matter which side? Does it matter if you’re right-handed or left-handed and does it matter which hand you use?

KRIS: It does not matter which hand you use. These points are on the LEFT side, they are not on the right side for a left-handed person, they are on the LEFT side of the body.

MARK: Anybody else have any questions?

ANYA: I only have one. I missed the second one, the second location.

KRIS: The left side of the waist area.

ELLEN: The waist area? Oh, we thought it was the thigh! We definitely misheard that one….all right…the first area is the left side of the groin, correct?

MARK: Correct.

ELLEN: And the second area is the left side of the WAIST?

MARK: Correct.

ELLEN: Okay, we thought that was the thigh…and then the third area is the left side of the nape of the neck?

KRIS: In that general vicinity.

ELLEN: Okay, thank you.

JOHN: I have a question, Kris. You mentioned that these three points, awakening the three dragons, was something that we should do once we’ve engaged our own processes…now, if we are attempting to enlarge our day experience to include Eros throughout the whole day in a non-specific way, can we use those as a trigger for THAT experience as opposed to…?

KRIS: Indeed and the point is that the majority of individuals are under the assumption that once they engage their own erotic processes, whether by themselves or with a partner, that it must culminate in ejaculation and orgasm. That is your assumption, but it is possible that you do not need to go to that end to enjoy pleasure. You can, if you so desire, but we can also tell you that there are other dimensions of erotic and sensual and sexual experiences in the opposite direction without necessarily rushing towards the grand finale.

And if you do decide to explore that area of sensuality and erotic pleasures, whether by self or with a partner, your perspectives will again be altered because that energy can and will stay with you for some time, and we would also suggest (a static interference invades Kris’ words here and he pauses)….there is a great deal of noise on the lines.

ELLEN: Yeah, we hear it.

KRIS: Now, any and all of you can also experiment to discover that ejaculation and orgasms are not one and the same. They can be separated. Individuals can enjoy waves of orgasmic pleasure without ejaculation. It takes practice. At the same time and by the same token, men can quite realistically engage their own processes and discover that they too can achieve waves of orgasmic pleasure just as women can have multiple orgasms. And that does not necessitate the need to ejaculate, though that is your prerogative. Does that assist?

ELLEN: Kris, would this technique be good to be used in conjunction with the Balancing Touch?

KRIS: If you wish, before anyone begins their own processes, they can at the onset so that they are more focused on the desired activities.

TOM: I have a question. Kris, the objective of this is to find a new perspective, a new relationship with our world around us, to more intimately understand and how we create what’s around us?

KRIS: The new relationship with your environment is a result of the new relationship with you. Does that make sense?

TOM: Yes, it does.

MARK: I want to comment that tonight’s session really gave me good insight into myself and especially my past histories, on the low points of my life, why I did the things I did and where I was at, spiritually and sexually. I definitely got a lot of good insight in some of the things I needed to see.

KRIS: Indeed and we would even suggest that your comments voiced the unspoken comments of many listening, as well as many who will read. We are also aware that there are also some who will read and be completely offended, but that is their beliefs, regardless of where they live. The point being that one stop the denial and accept their own creaturehood.

JOHN: May I ask a question on that?

KRIS: Indeed.

JOHN: Throughout your talk tonight, you have mentioned repeatedly that we have to…to stop the pain and guilt, stop denying. (Some of John’s words are lost in static) I mean apart from Triple A’ing and what have you, is there….if we’re hiding these things from ourself, then how do we find the darn things?

KRIS: We have already given the gentle solution: Learn to love yourself in a very real, tangible, physical, visceral manner.

JOHN: Okay.

KRIS: Embrace all parts, physically, psychologically and spiritually.

MARK: I think we can unravel the whole Mid-East crisis by having sex! (Chuckling)

KRIS: Indeed then, when someone says to you to go “F” yourselves, you can smile and say “Gladly!”

(Laughter)

KRIS: Are there other questions from our Q-U-I-I-I-ET audience?! (Humorously) Now we fully understand you are caught in a sweat!

ELLEN: Kris, Cathy has a question.

KRIS: Indeed.

CATHY: Kris, I was wondering in terms of awakening these three dragons, when you say touch the three points on the left side as opposed to the energy-balancing which you directed to do on the right side…how does this work in with the meridians?

KRIS: The three dragons are following another meridian line.

CATHY: And it’s exclusively a left-sided path?

MARK: Yes.

CATHY: Okay.

KRIS: Does that answer your question?

CATHY: Yes, it does, thank you very much.

KRIS: Are there other lovely questions? (Long pause) Then, if you are all done with your questions, it may mean that you would rather go and put some things into practice!

(Lots of snickering)

CATHY: We’re gonna try and go wake up some dragons!

TOM: Our homework.

(Laughter)

KRIS: And in that light, we thank you for you lovely attention and consideration.

ALL: Thank you, Kris.

KRIS: And one small word to finish: when we say “thank you for your consideration,” there may be many understandings of it, but there is also a very ancient understanding of the word “consideration” tied directly to an ancient word for religion. So again, thank you for your deep consideration and may you all have pleasant dreams with dragons.

(9:17 Session ends)

Detailed Roll Call:

Toronto: Serge (Joseph), Mark (Philip), and John (Sohars)
Delaware: Ellen (Kwaa’Ji), Cathy (Segova), Brian (El-Don) and Tim
Hawaii: Tom (Desire)
Mexico City: Marcos
Los Angeles: Ester (Benata)
Oregon: Lisa (Lauromar)
Salt Lake: Anya (Greensleeves)

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